I must have been around four or five-years-old the morning I decided I couldn’t walk.
There’s probably some scientific name for what was at the time nothing more than a kid’s overreaction to the very real fear of polio and the new vaccine in the news. Perhaps it had something to do with having a paraplegic in the home. Regardless, in my mind, at five-years-old, the paralysis was very real. To this day, I remember the frustration of trying to move legs that refused to budge.
Thankfully, my mother, recognizing the truth, fixed breakfast, put it on the table and told me it was ready whenever I was hungry. The paralysis didn’t last long. Closer to minutes than days. Food has always been a great motivator in my life.
I wonder how different my life might have been if instead of fixing my breakfast my Mother had carried me to the table. What if she had taken me to a doctor, who instead of telling me there was nothing wrong, gave me a wheelchair. None of this happened of course because back in the 50’s reality mattered.
Today, not so much. Some want us to believe that our sexuality is artificially created through association with family and friends. A quick peek in a human anatomy book proves that theory wrong. But even if it was so, how would it be bad to teach children to live in harmony with their physical nature? To do otherwise seems un-natural and potentially harmful. (Consider the astronomically high suicide rates, up to 50 percent, for young people suffering from gender confusion.)
Yet the craziness continues.
So when I saw this headline, “Court Rules That a Mom Can Transition Son into a Girl Against His Dad’s Wishes,” I got fired up … again.
The story tells about seven-year-old James Younger whose divorced Mother (a pediatrician no less) has decided that her son must be a girl because he wants to dress up like his TV hero (a girl) and his favorite movie is Frozen. According to the boy’s Father Jeff Younger, Anne Georgulas, the boy’s mother, started dressing him in girl’s clothes at age three, telling him monsters only eat boys and withholding affection if he didn’t act like a girl.
The court decision mentioned in the article apparently opens the door for little James’ Mother to begin puberty reversal treatments – a process known to cause sterilization. Thankfully, a second court has now decided the Father, does have parental rights to stop this madness.
When at his Father’s house James acts and plays like a boy, and, according to his Father, violently opposes having to wear girl’s clothes. When at his Mother’s house he plays and acts like a girl. Maybe he is simply behaving in a way that gets him the love of his parents.
This doesn’t even sound like gender dysphoria since James acts like a normal boy in normal situations. No, this is child abuse by someone who ought to know better. Even if James was confused (suffering from gender dysphoria) studies show that without treatment, nearly all (95 percent) of these children eventually grow comfortable with their birth gender.
Don’t get me wrong, I am not paranoid that transgenders are taking over the world. Transgendersim has been around for most of human history and will continue as long as we continue to treat mental illness as a choice. The transgender lifestyle is too destructive to individuals and society to ever be truly mainstream and even it’s current (dare I say) popularity, will soon subside.
Meanwhile, however, we cannot allow children’s lives to be destroyed by parents and doctors who are either too scared or too indoctrinated, to speak truth to insanity.
I have always cringed a little when I hear a parent say my child and I are best friends. Being your child’s best friend is fantastic as long as it is secondary to being their parent. This means teaching your child right and wrong and what is best in life, regardless of whether they “hate you” (temporarily) for doing so.
When it comes to parenting, I try not to be too judgmental. It is a hard job and we all make mistakes. But if the stories about James’ Mother are true, that is child abuse, plain and simple. And regardless of her possible “good intentions,” society should not allow a misled Mother to chemically or surgically destroy her child’s future in homage to an insane dedication to leftist gender theories.
If an adult wants to have transgender surgery or take hormones – go for it. While I feel it is validating a mental illness – adults are generally allowed to harm themselves. Children should be protected from such craziness because of the life-changing, unalterable effects. Our legislators need to support Virginia Health Boards, which have already banned conversion therapies for minors, by passing laws that impose legal penalties on those who provide hormone treatments or surgery for sex change purposes to minors.
To do less is simply … well, crazy!
Systemic Racism and Violent Communities
Posted in Political Commentary, tagged black communities, politics, racism on June 23, 2020| Leave a Comment »
CHARLOTTESVILLE, USA – August 12: White Supremacists and counter protestors clash at Emancipation Park where the White Nationalists are protesting the removal of the Robert E. Lee monument in Charlottesville, Va., USA on August 12, 2017. (Photo by Samuel Corum/Anadolu Agency/Getty Images)
According to statistics compiled by an opinion writer in the Carroll County Times, nearly 50 percent of convicted murderers in the US are black. Blacks are also more likely to be involved in violent crimes as both perpetrators, and victims.
Most thinking people agree that much of this violence is due to the life situation too many African Americans find themselves in because of the misfortune of being poor, and too often born into a broken family.
But is the problem systemic racism or something else?
What one draws from these statistics often depends on their perspective and political agenda. The left wants more government and believe welfare works. They say the statistics support the need for government intervention.
On the right, people see personal responsibility as the cost of freedom. Those people interpret the exact same statistics as proof that there are problems inherent in the black community such as single parent homes and little encouragement toward education – things that only families and communities can fix.
Is their truth in both points of view? Maybe the destruction of the traditional family has created a sort of community level systemic racism – defined here as an environment unhealthy to success. While the government can help by ensuring quality education and safe streets, the community must also step up to create a culture that studies and history suggest will give children the best chance of success.
Both initiatives are happening – just not quickly. And the reason progress is so slow is because too many black leaders and politicians need the problems to justify their reach for power.
So instead they work on silencing reasonable voices.
PHASE ONE
Unfortunately for them, their true radical agenda is often unpopular with the majority. So instead, following the pattern of previous tyrants, they first come out in defense of ideas the majority can easily accept. The goal of this phase is to become the champion of the people and to firmly establish labels for anyone who opposes the plan. The labels must be demeaning, insulting, and embarrassing – labels such as bigot, racist, homophobe, transphobe etc.
Example of something the majority can easily agree to:
“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.”
Dr Martin Luther King Jr.
Result: Radicals become community leaders.
PHASE TWO
They conflate the original agreeable goal into something more in line with their true agenda.
Example: statement the 2020 goals from the Black Lives Matter Website.
BLM’s #WhatMatters2020 will focus on the following issues:
They accuse anyone who disagrees with their new goals of being a racist, regardless of whether you still support the original goal of MLK’s Dream.
With huge masses of uninformed, out of school and out of work young people looking for something to do, they can quickly punish the slightest infraction of their aggressive brand of political correctness.
Results: Statues get torn down, communities burn, and Aunt Jemima gets taken off the syrup bottle – and no one complains out of fear of being labeled. Now, even folks who recognize that tearing down a statue of Ulysses S. Grant does nothing to further equality say nothing. It’s the new normal and seems easier and safer than fighting back against a rising tide of craziness.
Their power has grown.
PHASE THREE
To test and grow their power, leftist leaders now demand that silence is not enough, that only positive and public actions can truly demonstrate your dedication to the cause of Dr. King.
Example: Protestors demand that police officers and politicians take a knee before them to prove their support for ????
Results: Many take a knee. Practically every school in the nation announces new efforts to fight systemic racism. These various declarations prove (so the organizations believe) they are not racist. Yet even as they make these insincere gestures, they do nothing to address, or even talk about the real problems facing children in black communities.
Radicals no longer hide their power. Now, even the bastions of government take a knee to avoid the ultimate career-ending insult of being labeled racist. Everyone is afraid of losing their job or business if they speak out.
Sadly, this new won power is not used to better the situation in black communities. Instead, it is used to push a broader agenda. One that just happens to mirror, almost perfectly, the agenda of the left and much of the Democratic Party.
Meanwhile, the dream of Martin Luther King goes unrealized and no one seems to care.
Kevin D. Williamson writing for National Review expressed his feeling about the current raft of worthless actions this way, “Forbes has announced a change in its in-house stylebook and will henceforth honor the woke convention of uppercase Black vs. lowercase white. And George Floyd is still dead. Jacob Frey is still mayor of Minneapolis. Medaria Arradondo is still the chief of police.
As I finished up this piece, A new story of racial violence came across the news. Apparently, a white Macy’s employee was beaten by a black customer who claimed he called him the “N” word. Store cameras seem to show that the insult never occurred. However, even if it did, what shook me most was the attitude of the perpetrators – and it goes straight to the heart of the question asked at the start of this essay. The brother of the man who beat the store employee, who was also at the scene, said of his brother’s reaction, “ In this age and time, he didn’t know what else to do. That was just his instinct.”
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